Thursday, January 15, 2009

CELEBRATION [first post!]

This year, I celebrate my 10th year as a Realtor®. I use the word "celebrate" because for me, that's what this is: a celebration! I have met so many wonderful new people over the past decade, many of whom I now consider my friends. It’s been an awesome journey.

I first became a Realtor® out of economic desperation. After 15 successful years, my steel business no longer provided enough income to meet the challenges presented by having to send three children to college. After nearly two decades in a familiar industry, I was forced to find a new career. I hoped the skills I had honed as a former business owner would prepare me for a completely new field. For years, I had been an industry leader, and now was about to become the Rookie.

My first and probably most memorable transaction came almost immediately after I entered the real estate business. I signed on with Coldwell Banker on November 2nd of 1998 and went right to work doing open houses. I figured, the quicker I get out there and meet people, the better. That’s when I met Debbie and Melanie.

One cold and icy afternoon, I was hosting an open house in Berrien City, a small neighborhood of older homes near the Princeton Junction train station. Debbie and her daughter, along with her parents, walked into my open house looking to… buy a house… imagine that! After the usual pleasantries, I realized that although Debbie was desperate to own her first home, this wasn’t going to be it. She really needed something smaller and a little more affordable. The problem was, if you want affordable, and you want West Windsor, Berrien City is almost the only place to look. After our conversation, I suggested that she come to my office one night after work and perhaps we could find her something to suit her budget. I was hopeful, but not optimistic.

After a few days had passed, Debbie called me and scheduled an appointment to come into my office. We had a great conversation. We searched the MLS (Multiple Listing System) and talked about all of the important things people need to talk about before they buy a home. Little Melanie sat patiently in the corner of the room coloring with some crayons on copy paper. As our conversation came to a close, it was apparent to both of us that the market was going to make it very difficult to find Debbie and Melanie an affordable home in West Windsor [near Melanie’s school.] One of the last things I said to Debbie is something I still say today to struggling first time homebuyers, “Don’t worry… be patient… we will find you a place to call home.”

Working together, Debbie and I did just that. Actually, Debbie found the home and told me about it! It was a small ranch home being offered FSBO (for-sale-by-owner) in Penns Neck. I arranged for Debbie and me to meet the owner at the property and on January 15th (1999), Debbie and Melanie would have a place of their own to call home.

Debbie’s closing took place in a small private attorney’s office in Cranbury. It wasn’t what I would have expected. Actually, I didn’t know what to expect. After we had killed a forest full of trees signing documents, it was over. She owned her own home and I got my first commission check.

That’s not why I’m celebrating.

As I drove back to my office, the reality of the situation hit me like a speeding freight train-- I just helped make someone’s dream come true. In years past, I’d sold tens of millions of dollars worth of steel, but I’d never been able to make someone's dreams come true… ever. Then it hit me-- HOW FREAKIN’ AWESOME IS THIS!?

So, today I celebrate… I celebrate for me. I celebrate for Debbie and Mel. I celebrate with all of my clients who place their sacred faith and trust in me. I celebrate by thanking God for a career, where sometimes I get to help make people’s dreams come true.

I couldn’t imagine doing anything else.

Thanks Debbie and Melanie!
Mel, I still have that picture you drew for me 10 years ago. It’ll always be very special to me.


  1. Thank you, too, for all you did helping us get our first house. We have spent ten very happy years in the house. As the years went by our family grew, and so did the house! Our lives have changed in so many ways. Although we think it might be time to move on, I will always have very fond memories of the past ten years in this home.
    I know I was just the first of many happy new homeowners you've helped. When it's time to sell, I'll definitely be calling you!
    I'll have to get Melanie to draw another picture for you. She loves art and hopes to major in design when she goes to college. (When she draw the last picture for you we were worried about where she would go to elementary school. Time does fly by!)
    Congratulations on your 10th anniversary! It is definitely something to celebrate.

  2. I know I was just the first of many happy new homeowners you've helped.Time does fly by
    Congratulations on your 10th anniversary! It is definitely something to celebrate.Best wishes for 10th birthday.please keep them coming and I look forword to more of your superb post.

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